There is much talk of bullying, rejection and all that. So today, I'm talking about the rejection. The definition according to the Larousse dictionary online, is;
Refusing, not to admit; abandonment: The rejection of a request.
What is rejected: The chlorine discharges polluted the river
Action to reject, to refer outside itself: The rejection of a wreck by the sea.
But for real rejection what is it? I asked this to 5 people.
1 st person:
"Well, for me the rejection is that example you invite several friends (s) with you to a party or may matter and it's always the same person who is alone, that nobody asked his opinion on such subject and it is always the person who is talking to others. "
the 2nd person:
"For me it is someone who is often alone or in any gang but are always behind other her friends drop it and everything. "
the 3rd person:
"Do not get love from others and be put aside. "
the 4th person:
"The release for me is someone who is in our" gang "but who is never invited anywhere, which is always alone and must always reach out to people in order to feel included, otherwise it will always be alone ... "
Then last but not least, the 5th person. I asked myself the same to me.
"For me, the rejection is not an action, but a feeling. "
Throughout my primary I was in solitude. By the fifth year, my friends began to make outputs. Many of them were making out together on Saturday night, SOMETIMES I was invited, but most of the time I was alone in my room crying my life. But the worst part about it is that sometimes we organized stuff and my friend canceled with banal excuses and did what we had to do with someone else. Sometimes we were organizing things and then told me I was too much. They will not tell me like that but that's how I understood it. I felt rejected. For nine months of my sixth year I try to integrate into a gang of friends but after nine months, I gave up and I told the girls that I was apart. Then I went with two of my friends. I was asking myself. What i was doing wrong. But i discover that, they was doing something wrong.